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    Not everyone is suitable to be your friend

    Not everyone is suitable to be your friend


    Ibn Qudamah al-Maqdisi said:

    “Know that not everyone is suitable to be your friend. You must verify that this potential friend has the neccessary characteristics that make friendship with him something to be desired. The one you seek to befriend must have five characteristics:

    • He must be intelligent, as there is no good in befriending an idiot, as he will only harm you when he wants to benefit you. By intelligent, we mean one who understands things as they are, either on his own, or if they are explained to him;


    • He must have good manners, and this is a must. One who is simply intelligent might be overcome by anger or desire, and obey his desire. Thus, there would be no benefit in befriending him;


    • He must not be a fasiq, as such a person would not fear Allah, and whoever does not fear Allah cannot be trusted;


    • He must not be an innovator, as his abundance of innovation is feared from befriending him;


    • He should not be eager for the dunya.”



    ['Mukhtasar Minhaj al-Qasidin'; p. 126-132]

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    The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said : A muslim is a brother to a Muslim: Neither he wrongs him, nor hands him over (to another).

    And whoso comes in need of his brother , Allah comes in his need ;and whoso removes a calamity of a Muslim, Allah will remove a calamity from the calamities of the Resurrection Day, and whoso conceals the faults of a Muslim, Allah will conceal his sins on the Resurrection Day'

    (Bukhari and Muslim)


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    Prophet Muhammed said:
    A good and a bad companion are like the bearer of musk and the one who pumps out filth respectively.


    As for the bearer of musk, he will either give you a share, you will smell perfumed air, or you will purchase something from him as for one who pumps out filth, he will either burn your clothes or you will smell something filthy from him

    (Bukhari and Muslim)

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    :assal:

    Jazaaki Allaahu khayran.

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    wa 3alaykom assalaam wrAllah wb,

    Wa djazaka Allaho a7san ldjazaae..

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